If you are one of those ppl who say that you will only marry a member of your own race/ethnicity, does that make you racist? B/c you are closing yourself off of others simply based on race?
If so….
Then if you’re a female, & would only consider dating/marrying a male. Or, if you’re male & will only consider dating/marrying a female, does that make you sexist? B/c you’re completely not willing to open yourself up to the possibility simply based on the sex of the person?
Sweet Sunshower 
That’s why I endorse the philosophy of being easy. That way no one can accuse you of discriminating.