Does anyone else feel this way? Old ppl just do whatever they want, & the rest of the world needs to adjust to them.
I can’t tell you how many dinner parties I’ve been to where ppl tell funny/quirky stories about their grandmas. Uh… their racist grandma. Not that I can’t tell a few too. I could give you anecdotes of grandmas of every race, from anywhere in the world, being racist. But I really don’t think that’s necessary.
Old ppl often use the excuse that they just didn’t know it was wrong, when they do something wrong. Recently, an older man hit me in my new car. He turned left in front of me, & said that he didn’t think that he was in the wrong. Why? B/c old ppl can do whatever they want, & we should just accommodate them?
Anyway, this post is really about the Retired Catholic Archbishop Rembert G. Weakland, the louse. He’s selling a memoir about his life, including his time as Archbishop in Milwaukee.
He allegedly covered up widespread child sexual abuse. In 1993, he oversaw the evaluation of Father Lawrence Murphy, who was being prosecuted at the time for abuse. Jump to 2003, when a report came out that made allegations of sexual abuse by 58 clergymen under the direct supervision of Archbishop Weakland.
As of 2009, the Archdiocese of Milwaukee spent about $26.5 million in legal fees & settlements for the victims.
Apparently, in his memoir, he contends that he didn’t realize that raping/abusing young children was a crime. Weakland retired in 2002, when it came out that he paid one of his victims $450,000 in 1998.
We all considered sexual abuse of minors as a moral evil, but had no understanding of its criminal nature.
Accepted naively the common view that it was not necessary to worry about the effects on the youngsters: either they would not remember or they would ‘grow out of it’.
I’m sorry, but isn’t knowing that something is wrong enough to keep you from doing it, esp if you’re, like, a man of God. How can you not know it’s wrong? I mean, we all have a sense of what’s appropriate behavior & what’s not. That’s why we feel guilt.
If anyone knows about guilt, it’s a Catholic. Just sayin.
I guess the sex scandal is just a chapter of the book. It also covers his childhood, his time as a Benedictine monk, his acknowledgment of his homosexuality, & his difficult relationship w/ the new Pope. Maybe his relationship w/ Pope John Paul II was so strained b/c he knew the new Pope won’t ignore this type of stuff.
He says proceeds from the book will go to the Catholic Community Foundation. I don’t know what that means; it’s so vague. What percentage of the proceeds will go there?
& is this supposed to make me feel better about ppl buying the book? I went to the Catholic Community Foundation’s website to try to find out where the money goes, but they just tell you all the diff ways you can give money, not what they do w/ it.
What I do know is that the almost half million he paid out to the victim came from the archdiocese, & he even concealed it from them at the time. & I also know that this summer, he’s moving to St. Mary’s Abbey in Morristown, NJ. So, it’s prob more of a case of his having to re-pay the Catholic community. Financially, but also for the bad PR. Not that he’s the only one.
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Um, knowing it’s a crime or not was not the point. He knew it was WRONG and still did it. What a sick man. I feel so terrible for all the young boys subjected to him and others like him. Thanks for posting about this – it was a good “madejathink” topic.
Oh, and my gram is seriously inappropriate all the time. I don’t get it. I tell her to shush and she asks why I’m shushing her – hello, lady, you just told me in your loudest “whisper” voice that the lady standing next to me is fat and needs to lose the weight. NOT COOL. PLUS, my gram constantly does/says things that are the exact opposite of what she thinks others should do. It’s ridiculous.
HA! Oh my! I can’t believe you told your gram to shush. I know everyone’s gram is like this, but I didn’t know you could actually try to reason w/ them! haha 🙂
Well, we go to alot of meetings together and we “hang out” with the people she “whispers” things to me about – her whispers are almost always inappropriate comments. I tell her to shush and wait until we get into the car to share. LOL It never works but I would die if anyone caught me just listening and not shushing her – I don’t need to be implicated in her rudeness!